Tuesday, 23 June 2015

Love in the times of transit

   A sea of people, bobbing heads appear and disappear; tall ones shadow the short ones, footsteps like clockwork and train timetables mechanically make their way to a place called home. Rush hour at any railway platform in Bombay feels the same. What happens after these people leave? Like little rocks that are exposed after a wave recedes, you’ll see people in pairs on lesser crowded corners or spaces of bridges, foot over bridges and platforms. These pairs are often seen engaged in intimate conversations, holding hands, embracing and sometimes even planting a little peck; obviously avoiding the authorities’ watchful eyes. Bombay is a city of endless possibilities, take about a million people chasing their endless possibilities, seizing the day whilst travelling to and fro by local trains. What time does it leave for one to write a sonnet to your beloved? What it does leave time for is the time spent waiting for a train, between catching connecting trains or probably taking the train home together. Code names for spots are made up,  ‘bridge ke neeche’, ‘first dabba’, ‘sky-walk wale seedhi ke neeche’ each of these and their  likes easily crawl their way into the daily language of the couples in-transit. This is the story of those few thousand couples in Bombay.
    On my way back from work I often spot couples and smile inwardly while aunties shoot looks ranging from surprise to rage and even disgust at these love-birds accompanied by concerned sounding clicking of their tongues and head shakes. But the lovers, nonchalant to these reactions, find comfort in the touch and sight of their beloved. The noise, the smells and the hurry in the background find no signs of ceasing to exist. The comfort that they find in their significant other (temporarily or otherwise) after a long tiring day is all that they seek. For that instant they forget how their boss yelled at them or the dishes they have to do once they get home.
    While most of these interactions are often all-smiles, there are a few that are laced with arguments and breakdowns. Do not be alarmed if you find a girl sobbing or slyly wiping away an unsteady flow of tears with her rolled up handkerchief, the boy is often a helpless bystander who offers her comfort through his handkerchief or a squeeze to her shoulder.  Then comes the part where one is seeing the other off, a quick hug, a smile, enthusiastic waving good-bye and the hope of seeing each other the next day.

    For couples who travel together, the story is a little different. The journey is complimented by sharing a pair of earphones and listening to music or catching up on sleep with a short nap resting their head on the other’s shoulder. ‘Accidental’ touching is a given. The rest of the journey is full of story-telling or a constant silence interrupted by pieces of conversation between the couple. This little rendezvous blossoms under watchful eyes of the Uncles, Aunties and families traveling in the same compartment. Four years ago I gasped when I had spotted a lesbian couple on a train conspicuously in love, holding hands. Today, I think back to that time and smile. Local trains and their paraphernalia let you love without prejudices, atleast the graffiti inside some trains says so.  I’m no creepy stalker, just in-transit a lot.  Maybe, I’ll meet you someday, on platform number one, first class- middle compartment.

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